
Rhys Emrys Smallwood passed away peacefully, leaving behind a deeply loved family, lifelong friends, and a life for which he was immensely grateful.
Born in Edmonton, Alberta, Rhys was the son of Emrys and Yvonne Smallwood (née Wilson). Tragically, Rhys lost his father in a car accident in 1960. In 1968, his mother moved Rhys and his two older sisters, Laura and Lynn, to Victoria, BC, establishing a family home in Oak Bay.
Rhys graduated from Oak Bay High in 1976 and earned a BA in Economics from the University of British Columbia in 1980. In his twenties, he spent several summers guiding whitewater rafting trips in BC and Northern California. A summer position in IT during his university years sparked a 40-year career in technology and IT project management. Working across both the public and private sectors, his career took him to Vancouver, London, England, and Houston, Texas before he returned to Victoria in 1995. He retired in 2018.
The true heart of Rhys’s life was his family. In 1998, he married Stacie Louttit, originally from Great Falls, Montana, and together they welcomed their son, Dylan, in 2000. Rhys was deeply involved in Dylan’s youth sports and loved family walks with their dogs—first their Golden Retriever, Bailey, and later their Wheaten Terrier, Zeus.
Known for his calm presence, grounded perspective, and a touch of mischief, Rhys had a lifelong love for the outdoors, including biking, cross-country skiing, and hiking. In recent years, he and Stacie enjoyed wintering in Arizona while keeping Victoria as home base.
Rhys will be deeply missed by his wife, Stacie; son, Dylan; mother, Yvonne; sister Laura Smallwood and her partner, Jackie Anderson; sister Lynn Smallwood; nephew Brys Stafford; nephew Evan Stafford, his wife, Kassandra, and their children; and three grand-nieces on Stacie’s side, all of whom he held dear. He also leaves behind a cherished circle of friends.
A Celebration of Rhys’ Life will be held on Saturday, October 10, 2026 at 10:00 AM at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Rhys’s memory to the BC Cancer Foundation in support of lymphoma research.
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Dree Thomson
Stacie, Dylan and extended family,
Rhys was such a lovely person, living life with love and to the fullest. He will be deeply missed.
My sincere, heartfelt condolences.
Sending love,
Dree
Jay & Lloyd Crawford
Stacie and Dylan, we are so very sorry for your loss. Rhys was such a sweet man ,kind and gentle . He will be missed dearly. Our deepest condolences to you and the family.
Jay & Lloyd
Don and Elspeth
Stacie and Dylan.
We are very sorry for your loss. Rhys was a kind, caring and compassionate man with a positive outlook, friendly demeanor, and big smile. We will forever cherish him as a close friend and good neighbour, including our “happy hour” conversations over a glass of wine and appies on the back patio. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Louise Fisher
Stacie and Dylan
We are so very sorry for your loss. We are sending our deepest condolences.
Dan and Louise
Susan Scott
Stacie, Dylan and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending my sincere condolences.
Susan Scott