It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of our Mom, Margaret Elaine Ironstand who passed away on February 8th, 2023, following a lengthy battle with Vascular Dementia. She was 76 years young. She is survived by her three children Vicki (Alistair) Graham, Michael (Berdine) Ironstand, Mark Ironstand and older brother Earl Graham. Mom now joins her parents Genevieve “Jenny” Graham, Edward Graham, siblings Louise “Bessie” Graham and George Graham in heaven.
Mom was born and lived all her life in Victoria, British Columbia, she raised her three children on her own. A strong independent woman till the end some might say stubborn too. Mom was a kind soul, always helping others. All her adult life was focused on raising her three children, she worked hard to ensure they had a safe and loving home. Mom had a zest for life enjoyed traveling to where ever her children lived in Canada or abroad. She loved walking, enjoyed dancing, playing crib and Yahtzee especially with her three kids even when they were adults. Mom was an avid gardener her hanging baskets could rival those of Victoria. Not many know but Mom was an accomplished seamstress she made most of Vicki’s clothes when she was a baby and young girl and lets not forget those 3 foot stockings she made for all 3 of her children which she would fill ever year until recent years. So unsurprisingly, Christmas was her favourite time of year, she was an awesome cook and was famous for her cheesecakes.
Mom spent her last 16 months at Veterans Memorial Village Green A2 lodge, as a family we can not thank the team enough for all the care and kindness they gave Mom even through her stubborn periods. As per Mom’s wishes no Service will be held and in lieu of flowers donations in Mom’s memory to the Veteran’s Memorial Lodge at Broadmead https://www.broadmeadcare.com/margaret-elaine-ironstand/or a charity of your choosing would be very welcome.
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MARGARET R O'FLAHERTY
Good bye, my Friend; I miss you, Buddy
Darlene Dobranski
You were one of the greatest bosses in my working career. You soon became a valued friend of mine and of my family. Your kindness and generosity will always be remembered. Our condolences to everyone in the family.
Sarjit Manhas
Vicki, Mike and Mark — Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your Mum. She was always a good friend to me and others who knew her. My prayers go out to all of you and although I know you will miss her terribly others, like myself who knew her, will too. She loved you all and worried about you and that’s what a parent does for beloved children. Rest in Peace Marg.
evelyn muralt
Heartfelt condolences to the family with the passing of your Mom!
Our conversations usually took place while we were doing outside gardening where Marg loved to be puttering! ( during the time living in the co-op)
Always a friendly neighbour
Brenda Bourquin
The Bourquin family is so sorry to hear about Marg and our sympathy goes out to Vicki, Mike, and Mark and family. She was such an active volunteer in sports, her work ethic was unmatched, and helping others when and how she could, made everyone love Marg. She was so special anyone who knew her will miss Marg.
She was a fabulous Mom…loved her children. Take care.
AJ Johnston
My heartfelt condolences to Mark, Mike and the rest of the family on the loss of your Mom. She was an incredibly strong woman with a beautiful soul. Her spirit will live on through you all. Sending love and prayers your way. ❤️
Vicki
Thank you Brenda she was a wonderfully supportive Mom to us and all our sporting activities. A kind soul to all 🙏💕
Pat Corbin
My sincere condolences to the family. Marg was a gentle kind soul and fun to spend time with!
Cayla Stiles-Clark
My deepest condolences to your family. I am forever grateful to Marg for giving me a chance. She set me on my career path and I wouldn’t be where am I now with out her. Thank you Marg, Till we meet again.