In Loving Memory of Brian McCarthy
May 29,1941 – August 30, 2025
With deep sadness, we announce the sudden passing of Brian McCarthy on Saturday, August 30, 2025 at home in Esquimalt, BC.
Brian is survived by his loving wife of 29 years, Brenda Quirimit McCarthy and his children Brian and Leigh and grandchildren. He will be sadly missed by his sister, Moira and his niece, Karen (Peter). He will be lovingly remembered by Brenda’s parents and family in Canada, especially Jing and Tina who helped their auntie in taking care of Uncle Brian.
He will surely be missed by his numerous friends.
Brian was born in Montreal on May 29,1941 to Helen Bradley and Brian McCarthy. He was a hard-working Businessman who was outgoing and enjoyed life. His kindness, humour, and wisdom was a source of great comfort and inspiration.
At Brian’s request there will be no visitation or service, and cremation will take place.
In lieu of flowers, donations to BC Liver Cancer Clinic, Victoria Hospice or Island Health Esquimalt District 70 Nursing would be greatly appreciated.
Rest in Peace
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Betty & Rinus Van Gennep
So sorry for your loss…Each person we love, leaves a big hole in our hearts…
May he rest in peace…
Eleanor Berio
Awe Brenda, so sorry for your loss… God bless his soul & take good care of yourself too… God Bless🙏🙏🙏
Neil & Rowena Clayton
May all the wonderful memories that you shared with Brian, over the years, help to ease your pain through these difficult days ahead.
Our deepest sympathies, Neil & Rowena xo
Curtis Bradley
Thinking of you and the family. Thank you for the time you spent with Lorna and I. Brian’s stories at the dinner table were always a pleasure to hear. Our sincere condolences to all the family.
Curtis & Lorna Bradley
Rogelio & Gloria Marcena
You brought more than just a happiness into our family and we thank you for being a wonderful partner to our daughter and an exceptional son in law. Rest and peace,
Rogelio, Gloria and families
Caranay family
You will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers for your family. Thank you for your hospitality wherever we visited Victoria BC, thank you for all the wonderful memories. Caranay family
Shirly May Abuan
Dear Uncle Brian, we’re heartbroken over your loss, but we take comfort knowing you’re at peace. We’re so grateful you were part of Aunt Aida’s life and ours. Your love and presence will always be remembered. We love you and cherish the memories we shared with you. Rest in peace.
Shirly May Abuan and Family
Noemi Balelo’s Family
On behalf of my mother and siblings, (Noemi, Razel, Ryzza, Roger, and Kristian).
I (Tina) want to take a moment to honor and remember a truly kind and generous man, my Uncle Brian. His passing has left a deep emptiness in our hearts, and while we are gathered here in sorrow, we are also here to celebrate the life he lived and the love he gave so freely.
To our dear Aunt Brenda, I want to extend my deepest sympathy and condolences. I can only imagine the weight of this loss, and I want you to know that you are in my heart and prayers. You and Uncle Brian shared a bond that inspired many of us especially to our family in Philippines, a partnership filled with kindness, generosity, and unwavering love.
Our family also want to express my sincerest gratitude to both of you. During one of the lowest points in my family’s life, you were there, not just with words, but with action. You offered us hope, support, and strength when we needed it most. I will never forget how you opened your hearts and extended your hands to lift us up.
Because of your help, I was given the opportunity to come to Canada, a life-changing journey that wouldn’t have been possible without your belief in me. Uncle Brian, thank you for being part of that blessing. Your impact on my life and the lives of so many others is something that will never be forgotten.
Your quiet strength, your warm smile, your generous heart, those are the things we will carry with us always. You may be gone, but the legacy of your kindness will live on in all of us.
Rest peacefully, Uncle Brian. And thank you, for everything.
Noemi, Razel, Ryzza, Tina, Bitoy & Nani
Moira McCarthy
Dear Noemi and Jacky,
Thank you for hosting the traditional Filipino Lamay in memory of my dear brother, Brian. And thank you for providing your delicious Filipino dishes and refreshments for family and visitors. Your kind generosity and support is greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
Moira
Karen
In Loving Memory of My Dear Uncle
“What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose,
for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us.”
— Helen Keller
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Dear Uncle Brian,
You were such an important part of my life. Your humour, wisdom, and warmth brought comfort and inspiration, and I will forever be grateful for the memories we shared.
You had a rare gift for truly listening—genuinely interested in my life, validating how I felt, and offering support without judgment. Your quick wit never failed to make me laugh, often when I needed it most. From making Christmas magical during a difficult time to stepping in with calm strength on my wedding day, you showed up with love and generosity.
You taught me the true meaning of family, and your values—compassion, kindness, and unwavering support—will stay with me always.
Thank you for the love, laughter, and all the memories. You are deeply missed.
With much love from your niece,
Karen
Jacky
Our deepest condolences Manang Aida.
His presence will be deeply missed, but his love, especially the love he had for you, will forever remain.
Sending you strength and comfort as you navigate this profound loss of Manong Brian.
He’s such a blessing to all of us.
May he rest in peace.
Jacqueline and Cris A.
Moira McCarthy
Dear Jacky and Noemi,
Thank you for hosting the traditional Filipino Lamay in memory of my dear brother, Brian. And thank you for providing your delicious Filipino dishes and refreshments for family and visitors. Your kind generosity and support is greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
Moira
Tina
With our sincere condolences to Brian’s family.
Brian and I are 6th cousins and even though we never met, I am so sorry for the news that he has passed. He gave it his all.
With our deepest sympathies,
Tina and Bob
Moira McCarthy
Dear Tina,
Thank you for helping Jing with organizing the traditional Filipino Lamay for my beloved brother, Brian.
Sincerely, Moira
Jacqueline Quilet
On behalf of my whole family, we send our deepest condolences for the passing of Uncle Brian.
I will always be thankful for the chance to have known him here in Canada. His warmth, kindness, and presence left a mark that will be remembered beyond the moments we shared. May he now rest peacefully, free from pain, and may his loved ones be comforted by the beautiful memories he has left behind.
Rest easy Uncle Brian.
From Jackie & Quilet Family
Jing
Dear Uncle Brian,
I still can’t believe you’re gone,it’s only been 6months since me and luna moved here in BC. It feels like there’s an emptiness that won’t ever quite fill. You always had a way of making everything feel easier,your laughter was contagious, and your wisdom,even when unspoken,was something I relied on. I will forever be grateful for the moment we shared,for your guidance, and for all the lessons you taught me-both big and small.
You were more than just an uncle to me; you were a friend,a role model,my 2nd dad,and someone I looked up to.
If it’s not with you and Auntie Brenda, I wouldn’t be where I am now; you’ve been a big help with my nursing journey and I am fortunate that I get to take care of you alongside Auntie Brenda during your final moments.
Thank you Uncle for taking care of Luna when I go to work; she’ll miss you a lot for sure.
I promise to take care of Auntie Brenda and will carry your memory with me and keep your spirit alive in the little things I do.
Rest in peace,Uncle. You will never be forgotten.
We love you!
Jing and Luna
Moira McCarthy
Thank you Jing for organizing the traditional Filipino Lamay for my beloved brother, Brian.
Sincerely, Moira
Tia & Che Way
You have been our good neighbors for 30 years! We grew to love you both so much. Brian always listened to my crazy rants, always willing to give a helping hand, with my drywall issues, borrowing a tool, petting Pepper, making me laugh or just waving at each other while we watered our plants. We will miss you dearly and thank Brian for his lovely videos of our House reno, tree removal and most recently our boat launch! Rest in Peace our dear friend. Love Tia, Che, Chase & Pepper
Brian Davies
To the McCarthy family,
My sincerest condolences to you all for your loss. Many Blessings.
May Brian Rest In Peace.
Katherynn Caranay
I send my heartfelt and deepest condolences to you and the rest of the family. May God be with the family as they go through the most difficult times in life. May the Lord’s comfort and love provide all with strength and healing.
Katherynn Caranay
Jezreel Marcena
Our Condolences Auntie. Hope and pray that you will overcome the loss of uncle Brian. May you rest in peace uncle and fly high.
Wish you good health auntie. Me and my 2 sons do remember your goodness. We love you Auntie.
Jezreel, Bench Raile and Zyreel Adrian.
Lieyan Kaizer
My deepest condolences to you Lola Aida during this time of sorrow. I hope you find comfort in the love and support of those around you, and strength in the memories you shared with your loved one. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. May God’s love bring you peace, and may His presence give you strength as you go through this time of sorrow.
Ryan, Liezl and Lieyan Abuan
Peter Wong
Dear Uncle Brian,
I will always remember how genuinely interested you were in what was happening in our lives. You made our wedding day extra special as our MC 24 years ago, filling it with warmth and laughter. I’ll miss our chats about computers, photos, videos, and the fishing stories we loved to share. Thank you for the kindness, curiosity, and care you showed so naturally. You will be deeply missed and fondly remembered.
Peter
Vanhertzel A. Bernabe
Dear Grandpa Brian, it deeply saddens me to know that you passed away before we had the chance to meet. Though we never met in person, the stories I’ve heard paint a vivid picture of the wonderful person you were. From those stories, I can already imagine your warmth, your laughter, and the love you shared with our family. Your spirit lives on in all of us, and I feel a connection to you through the memories shared. I wish I could have known you, but I will carry your legacy in my heart. Rest in peace, Grandpa.
Valerie Peters
Dear Brenda,
So sad to learn of Brian’s
passing. I remember Brian as a caring soul full of love and kindness.
He will be missed.
With sympathy and love,
Valerie Peters
Erin Van Gennep
My sincere condolences to our family, Brenda, Jing and all those in Uncle Brian’s life. He will be truly missed and never forgotten. As I did not know him very well, I know how wonderful he was and how much he was loved.
Marivic
Dear Manang Brenda,
I want to express my deepest sympathy to you on the passing of Manong Brian. I know no words can truly ease the pain you are feeling, but I want you to know how deeply I share in your sorrow.
He was not only my brother but also like a second parent to me. When I was a teenager, you and Manong Brian welcomed me, guided me, and understood me in a way few others did. During those years growing up, you both helped me in so many ways, and his kindness and encouragement have stayed with me ever since. Until his very last days, he continued to support me and believe in me, and for that I will be forever grateful.
He will be dearly missed, but his love, laughter, and wisdom will remain in our hearts. I pray that you will find strength and comfort from our family, from your friends, and from the many lives he touched. Please know that you are not alone in this; we are here for you in every way we can be.
With all my love and heartfelt condolences, Marivic
Holly Bradley
My name is Holly Bradley, daughter of Angela and Ross Bradley and granddaughter of Len and Mable Bradley. Moira who has been wonderful in connecting with me over the years has let me know of your loss and I offer my sincere condolences to all the family. Though I sadly did not meet Brian I know he was deeply loved and ill be missed by many. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.
Joyce Wong
To the McCarthy Family,
I am truly sorry to hear of your loss. May he rest in eternal peace. Please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss. If I can help you share this burden in any way, I would be honoured to do so.
With all my heart,
Joyce
Ashley
My most sincere condolences to Auntie Brenda and family. I loved Uncle Brian very much and have many fond memories of him. Sending you all love and strength.
Love Ashley
Betty and Jim Wong
Dear Moira and Brenda,
Words of sympathy feel inadequate in expressing grief and sorrow for a loss so great. Sending a warm embrace and all our love during this sad time.”
Angela and Ron Kelling
Spokane, WA USA
Dear Moira,
So sorry to hear about Brian’s passing. It is so sad to loose a brother.
With love and sympathy,
Angie and Ron
Jena, Nizar and Rahim Family
Scarborough, ON
Dear Moira
Nizar, Rahim and I were very sad to receive the news about your brother Brian.
Our sincere condolences on your brother’s passing and we pray to the Lord to rest his soul in eternal peace and give you and the family courage and fortitude at this difficult time.
Warm wishes
Jena, Nizar and Rahim
Susan and Julie KENNEDY
Derby, England
Dear Moira,
We are so very sorry to hear of the death of Brian. You have had such an awful time recently with your nearest & dearest dying. We can only imagine your pain and heartache! From what we’ve read, Brian seemed a lovely man and wil be sadly missed by all who knew him.
Please be assured that we will keep you, Brian, Brenda & all his family and friends in our prayers. We are having a Mass said for Brian in the Missions, via ‘The Little Way Association’.
Thinking of you with love
Julie & Sue xx
Dale Powers
Toronto, ON
Oh Moira, I am so very sorry to learn of your loss. I’m so glad you were able to spend time with Brian and your sister in law over the past few months. Your losses have been many over the past few years. I wish you strength and love to guide you through. My deepest condolences.
Moira Kepinska
Northwood, Middlesex, England
Oh Moira, I’m so sorry to hear your very sad news about Brian’s passing. What a horrible shock it must have been to learn of his cancer diagnosis and to lose him so suddenly after that.
Brenda must be grateful to have you with her at such an unhappy time, I hope you can help each other through these first few awful weeks.
I’ll pray for Brian and all of you and hope you get the comfort you need in the coming weeks.
God bless you all.
Moira
Stephanie Powell
Lewes, East Sussex, England
Dearest Moira,
I cannot believe this sad news. Dear Brian, God rest him. I recall my mum rather liked him. It seems only a year since I was writing to you for the sad loss of your son. What a terribly sad time you have had. I’m so very sorry for your loss, Moira.
Barb and Ken Miller
Vancouver Island, BC
Thank you for letting us know, we are both very saddened by this news . R I P .
Loved Brian so much he was a very special guy 🙂
He will be so missed. 🙁
Hope Brenda and yourself will feel the love after all this passes .
Audrey Watson
Kelowna, BC
Dear Moira,
I’m so very sorry to hear about Brian, this is too much for you and your family. I’m deeply saddened.
I have been thinking of you quite a bit lately.
My heart goes out to you, Moira, it’s sure been a challenging number of years for you. I can only imagine.Miss not seeing you dear friend.
Audrey